“As for the future, your task is not to foresee it, but to enable it”
~~Antoine de Saint-Exupery~~
For the past fifteen years, America has been the most prevalent influence on the global stage and the rest of the world, whether classed as developing or developed, has consumed a seemingly endless stream of American media, products and culture. In most part, for the Western countries at least, this mass exposure has been easy to digest, as the American culture does not differ too much from that of Britain and other European countries. Now the positions of global power, based largely on economy, are shifting and China looks set to soon be glorified as the world’s newest ‘super power’.
In Europe, America is fun to hate, not because of a lack of cultural understanding, but more of a tongue in cheek amusement over the brashness of a baby country that grew up too quickly. America bashing is made easier by the fuel that is provided by the media, Bill O’Reilly being a particularly petrifying spokesman and campaigner of hate. However, I have grown to love America, and even more so the American people, who, whether intentionally or otherwise, are a pretty constant source of amusement to me. One of my favourite pastimes when travelling around the world is to take pictures of artifacts or architecture dated 1200 or 1600 and tag my American friends with a not-so-witty, ‘older than the founding of your country,’ posted beneath. The ‘Team America’ theme tune has become pertinent over the years, as more and more soldiers from Britain and the United States have been deployed to countries under the guise of human rights and in turn this has fuelled ardent indignation over the concept of ‘America’ and ‘Americans’. The fact is that since the beginning of man’s unruly reign over this beautiful Earth, there has been super power after super power, the only difference now is that since the First World War, we have developed the concept of human rights. In comparison to the super powers that came before it, God’s country aka Great Britain being a prime example, America is really pretty tame in terms of its destructive qualities. The concept of an ‘American’ is equally as ignorant as the idea that ‘America’ is a purely tyrannical force. In a country that spans a total of 9,629,091 square kilometers and has a population of 312,489,433, it is impossible to over generalise: there are people of every religion, ethnic origin, spectrum of mental illness, intellect, creativity and every flavour of strange. For a writer, this is absolutely delightful. The point is that it is far too easy to judge the images played on the television screen, or to believe what is told to us in the newspapers or online. Quite simply, far too many people judge without ever really knowing, ‘under the guise of good intentions and defending our values we often feel that we have the right to sermonize and demand that others behave the way we do’, Anne-Laure Monfret, author of ‘Saving face in China’.
This is a large problem when related to China. While the world, particularly Europe, has sometimes made extreme judgments on America over the years, the culture is at least understood to a certain degree. Now China is becoming an important influence on the world, particularly with the global economy and many foreign businesses now rely on the Chinese for progression and financial backing. The culture of the Chinese, a civilization which has stood solid for thousands of years (there will be no picture with ‘witty’ slogan for my Chinese pals), is massively misunderstood. In my very short time living in China, I have had the privilege of writing articles which focus mainly on Chinese culture and as such have interviewed several people about the main issues foreign people experience when moving to, doing business in or visiting China. One of the biggest factors ingrained within the Chinese culture and history, dating back to before the age of Confucius, is the concept of mianzi-the preservation of face. This is of paramount importance in every single aspect of Chinese life and is a crucial factor when building relationships with the Chinese, whether it’s on a business, personal or base level. As a Chinese proverb states, ‘A person needs a face like a tree needs bark.’ To lose face is to lose social status and respect, and yet it is something that is misunderstood or completely overlooked by many foreigners who come into contact with the Chinese.
I am currently writing a review for Shanghai Daily on French author and journalist Anne-Laure’s fantastic book ‘Saving face in China’. The first of its kind, the book deals with the many issues and cultural complexities that arise on a daily basis as a consequence of building and losing face. As Anne-Laure commented, ‘in China, everything is founded on a system of relationships and the cultivation of trust’. This can be seen to be true of the majority of countries in this wide and wonderful world, but in China the extent to which this is true is really quite surprising. Mianzi applies to everything: from humour to gift giving and receiving, to paying the bill and even the notion of truth, there is a custom for it all and the Chinese are almost wholly unforgiving of any deviance from this, whether you are aware of your mistake or not. As I become more and more aware of this, I am realising how many times I must have made Chinese people who I have come into contact with lose face and consequently lost face myself. The concept of face is interpersonal-I give you face, you give me face; we lose face together.
Many foreigners are very quick to criticize the Chinese, viewing many of their habits such as spitting in the street or barging straight onto trains as rude. Additionally, there appears to be a level of judgment that sees a country of 1.3 billion as mindless subordinates of a controlled society. They overlook the progression of China while the majority of the West stagnates, they chose to ignore that China is booming and is doing so because of the Chinese. The truth is, several of us in the West are stuck in the belief that we are the top dogs, that countries such as China are developing and therefore beneath us and this is simply not the case. There is a lot that we can learn from the Chinese and some serious importance in doing so.